If someone promised to meet you in another country and then stops emailing, should I expect them to be there?

It has been 6 weeks since they wrote me, but they last said, when I say I am going to be somewhere I will. Should I make other plans once I arrive in France so if they are not there I am prepared? Why wouldn't someone just emial and say they changed their mind??? Confused
If someone promised to meet you in another country and then stops emailing, should I expect them to be there?
the most probable is that this person has chickened out and is too cowardly to let you know and has a piss poor imagination and can therefore come up with zero interesting and believable excuses. however, can you afford to be the one not at the appointed place at the appointed time? if you always do what you say you're going to do then you have your answer. you will survive disappointment, it's easier to deal with than wondering what could have been... if you get my drift.
Reply:I wouldn't trust that they will be there. If you're going to France anyway, make a Plan B in case this person is not there, and be prepared to make the best of it.
Reply:Long distance relationships are doomed from the start.
Reply:It's a pretty safe bet they won't be there. If they are a "no show" on the internet they'll probably be a "no show" in France. I would make other plans just to be on the safe side. Then, if they are there, it will be a happy surprise!
Reply:Well, what I would do is email them that you need them to confirm that they will meet you wherever they said they would. You can also say that if you don't hear from them, then you will not be where you said you'd be.
Reply:No, you shouldn't expect them to be there. It is always best to finalize plans and make sure that both parties are going to still meet as planned. If someone doesn't confirm with me, I don't go ahead with plans.
Reply:they are liers..


if they really want to see you they should be excited and email you many times...


and now they stopped... they are scammers... because they knew you were coming they stopped.. they didnt know y0u would really do it..


just in case, do some other plans..








@ sweety





my long distance worked.. now we have a happy family..
Reply:I would make alternative plans regardless. But yes it is unusual that you wouldn't hear from someone in for 6 weeks. Sounds like they got cold feet to me.
Reply:Definetly make other plans. If the person does show up please meet them only in a public place as they could be setting you up.
Reply:there's a bridge in Brooklyn I would like to sale you
Reply:Only go if you will enjoy being in France by yourself. If they said they will be there, and they are, great. If not, well, that tells you something about them too.
Reply:Yikes! If you're having doubts it's probably with good reason. I would make back up plans regardless, just incase a flight is late or something falls through. You're going to France for goodness sakes! What a beautiful country - make sure you've set yourself up enough such that if this person doesn't show, you'll still enjoy every single minute of it.
Reply:DON'T depend on that person. 6 weeks is a long time! Write an e-mail explaining the situation. Telll the person that if you don't hear from them within a given time frame, you are going to assume they are NOT going to be other and you will make other plans.





Always have a backup plan, especially in a foriegn country.
Reply:If you are goin to meet specifically, i would cancel, but if there are alterior motives, and meeting was just convinient, than go and hope for the best. GOOD LUCK!